How to Feel Better About Your Relationship
1. Have a solid friendship. - Ask yourself what kind of friend you are being to your mate. Whether it be talking about silly things or sharing a good joke together. Apply that same openness to your own relationship. If you want a good friend, be a good friend.
2. Meet each others’ needs. - The success of a relationship is a function of the extent to which it meets the needs of two people. Maybe she needs a soft place to fall that day or she needs a shoulder to cry on. The wife doesn’t always need to agree with the husband, but she should figure out his needs, whether it’s saying that she’s proud of him, or that he looks nice that day.
3. Set specific goals. - Wake up each morning and say, "What can I do today to advance the ball?" Even small things will accumulate over time and make a difference. Find a quiet moment each day and come up with a specific goal to improve your relationship, whether it’s calling your spouse during the day just to say hi, or telling your mate that you love him or her more often. Make a conscious effort.
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